07 May '11, 7pm

Codependency Sucks: Happy Mom’s Day: Codependency sucks. It sucks for a million reasons but today my heart is ac...

Codependency Sucks: Happy Mom’s Day: Codependency sucks. It sucks for a million reasons but today my heart is ac...

Codependency sucks. It sucks for a million reasons but today my heart is aching from the realization that my old friend Cody (codependency) has come between my children… and themselves. Yeah, happy freaking Mother’s Day to me. Recovering from codependency comes in layers, the same process over and over again, getting rid of one layer at a time. I discover a behavior, a tool of sorts, that I’ve been using to (attempt to) manipulate my world into being what it “should” be. Releasing that behavior means choosing a more authentic way to show up in my relationships. That replacement is usually something scandalous like asking for what I need. Crazy, right? The initial behavior, of course, was passively waiting for others to prove their love by predicting and meeting my needs while I wait stoically in the corner, pretending I don’t have any. …and responding aggressively when the...

Full article: http://www.care2.com/greenliving/codependency-sucks-happy...

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Happy Mother’s Day! Love, Fido

Happy Mother’s Day! Love, Fido

care2.com 07 May '11, 11pm

By Lisa Spector, Juilliard Graduate, Canine Music Expert and co-founder of Through a Dog’s Ear . Mother’s Day is not the e...

Happy Mother's Day ~ The most expensive cars in the world

Happy Mother's Day ~ The most expensive cars in...

mnn.com 08 May '11, 5pm

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cleanbreak.ca 08 May '11, 2pm

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How employers can encourage happy, healthy bike commuters

How employers can encourage happy, healthy bike...

grist.org 09 May '11, 3pm

Good post, Elly. I commute to work on my bike as often as possible, and I ride the bus when the weather does not permit. I...